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Is kink addictive?  Is this something you should worry about?  In a way - yes.

Kink is a powerful thing - a powerful part of yourself, and a powerful experience.  Here's what to watch for, and how to guard against it's addictive potency, to ensure that it remains in balance - as a part of you and your life.

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With divorce rates so high these days, it's easy to start believing that marriage won't last - no matter how much you love someone in the beginning.  It's easy to lose hope, to write it all off as a fantasy of youth.  And it's all completely understandable... but is that what you want?

If you still want a relationship to last... If you still want a partner to be with you 'forever'... Listen in.

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Have you ever dealt with a 'crazy chick' - or a 'crazy guy'?  Perhaps you dated one, married one, were stalked by one or are even related to one.  How do you decide if it's okay to let them back into your life?  Is it a good idea at all?  When is it okay, and when is it a really bad idea?  Here's help.

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If you're single and unhappy about it, there is always a reason why... it's just a matter of figuring out what that reason is, so that you can do something about it.  If you are one of the many singles out there - wondering if you're ever going to be in a relationship again - this one's for you.

Special thanks to thejerrycan for inspiring today's podcast. 

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Whether you're in a relationship right now, or not, Valentine's Day can be something we dread.  Between the commercialism and cynicism of our modern world, it can be hard to have positive feelings about this festive day.  But - whatever your relationship status or orientation - there is a way to make the day something wonderful... something to look forward to... perhaps even one of your favourite days of the year.

There is a way to have this day make your relationships better - and even make being single something to celebrate!

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What do you do when a relationship is strained to a point where you aren't sure what to do anymore?  How do you get back to the place you were at before the pain and distrust were created?  What do you do when you aren't sure if it's worth it?  You start again, that's what!

Today's podcast is all about how to take hurtful situations in relationships and turn them into the relationships you need.

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If you have been in the BDSM community for a while, or have done any reading on the subject, then you have probably come across this "rule".  But is it true?  What if you aren't a bottom?  What if you've tried it, but it was no help at all?  What can you do to become a really good Top without bottoming?

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The Madonna Whore complex affects us all in some way or another.  Whether you're the person who puts this expectation on yourself, or the person who puts this expectation on your partner - here's help to let go of that cycle and start enjoying the true gifts with the one you love.

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What do you do when you feel like your partner is cheating on you, but they INSIST it isn't true?  How do you move forward when all these feelings stand in the way?  How do you trust them again?  How can you feel safe to love them?  In this podcast, I address what to do when your partner IS telling the truth... and the feelings are still there.

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Are you in the here-and-now in relationships, or are you in love with the version of them that is in the past?  If you have a tendency to think more about what your relationship USED to be, then you are what I call an "emotional necrophiliac".

Here's how to let go of your romance with the ghosts of the past, and join the loving that's alive today.

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